Imagine this, you're at a party, and you see someone from across the room. You approach them. The attraction is strong, the chemistry is there, you're talking all night, only to eventually find out that the person has a girlfriend. *whomp whomp*
What do you do with an attraction that strong? They can really get you in trouble. At what point do you walk away and ignore your attraction to someone who is already attached? Chemistry is something very hard to come by. Some people you just like, and others you have amazing chemistry with. Because it is so hard to come by, people don't want to give it up.
What most people don't realize is that 9 times out of 10, the chemistry is completely false. I think 85% of the attraction and chemistry is based on the fact that the person is not available. Subconsciously, that is the reason for you wanting them so much. Take the time to really evaluate why you only want that one person who can not give you what you want.
For the other party, its usually the 80/20 rule. The person may look so attractive to you while your in a relationship because she offers the 20% of what your partner is not offering. Everyone knows the break down of this rule.
Long story short, if she has a girl, or you have a girl, leave her alone! :o)
What do you do with an attraction that strong? They can really get you in trouble. At what point do you walk away and ignore your attraction to someone who is already attached? Chemistry is something very hard to come by. Some people you just like, and others you have amazing chemistry with. Because it is so hard to come by, people don't want to give it up.
What most people don't realize is that 9 times out of 10, the chemistry is completely false. I think 85% of the attraction and chemistry is based on the fact that the person is not available. Subconsciously, that is the reason for you wanting them so much. Take the time to really evaluate why you only want that one person who can not give you what you want.
For the other party, its usually the 80/20 rule. The person may look so attractive to you while your in a relationship because she offers the 20% of what your partner is not offering. Everyone knows the break down of this rule.
Long story short, if she has a girl, or you have a girl, leave her alone! :o)
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