Intro to dating.
I've realized that many lesbians don't know what it means to date (me included). We meet someone, spend every other day with them, and then expect a whole lot of shit afterwards. What I have learned is that when it comes to dating, you should hold NO expectations. Dating is supposed to be fun, not stressful. With that said, here are my do's and donts to dating.
DO NOT- feel under pressure. If you feel ANY pressure then ABORT! Dating is about getting to know each other. You shouldn't feel pressured to go somewhere that you don't wanna go, to do something you don't wanna do or to hang out when you don't want to hang out.
DO- try to take things slow. Lesbians have the tendency to run head first into dating and before you know it, they've moved in and gotten married all within 2 weeks. Take the time to get to know the person to even see if you want to be with them. You never know your future partner in 2 weeks.
DO NOT- play baller during the first couple of weeks. Splurging on a girl just to impress her is soo stupid. She will eventually find out your broke. Do practical things like cook for each other.
DO- have respect for the person you're dating. If you're dating more than one person, please try to keep them separated. It can create an awkward situation if the two happen to run into each other. If they're kinky, then maybe you can land a threesome. That only happens in pornos tho. I digress...
I've realized that many lesbians don't know what it means to date (me included). We meet someone, spend every other day with them, and then expect a whole lot of shit afterwards. What I have learned is that when it comes to dating, you should hold NO expectations. Dating is supposed to be fun, not stressful. With that said, here are my do's and donts to dating.
DO NOT- feel under pressure. If you feel ANY pressure then ABORT! Dating is about getting to know each other. You shouldn't feel pressured to go somewhere that you don't wanna go, to do something you don't wanna do or to hang out when you don't want to hang out.
DO- try to take things slow. Lesbians have the tendency to run head first into dating and before you know it, they've moved in and gotten married all within 2 weeks. Take the time to get to know the person to even see if you want to be with them. You never know your future partner in 2 weeks.
DO NOT- play baller during the first couple of weeks. Splurging on a girl just to impress her is soo stupid. She will eventually find out your broke. Do practical things like cook for each other.
DO- have respect for the person you're dating. If you're dating more than one person, please try to keep them separated. It can create an awkward situation if the two happen to run into each other. If they're kinky, then maybe you can land a threesome. That only happens in pornos tho. I digress...
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