I learn about almost everything through Twitter. From songs to tragedies, they all make their debut on Twitter. Yesterday I saw people talking about Amber Cole. I had no idea who she was and I didn't care to ask. I assumed she was another hip hop artist that came out with some stupid commercial song that everyone would quote lines from. When I saw people still asking, "who is Amber Cole?" I decided to google her.
Amber Cole is a 14 year old girl who was filmed giving head to some kid while in school. So first of all, this video is circulating as if it isn't considered child pornography. Don't forget that any footage of children under the age of 18 doing sexual acts ON CAMERA/VIDEO is illegal. The fact that a whole day later I can still google and find a video of a 14 year old giving head on the net is ridiculous. FYI- I was DYING to see those nakey pics of Miley Cyrus and I couldn't because she wasn't 18 at the time (Judge me, IDGAF).
I guess my main concern is this, yes she is 14 years old. Yes she was caught in an unfortunate situation. Is the attention she is getting needed? God forbid this young girl decided to take her life, would people begin to think that their response to her situation is cyber bullying? When I was 14 I definitely was NOT fucking. I had never saw a penis or a vagina at that age(in real life anyway). Times are different and people are different. I try my best not to judge anyone. You learn from every experience given to you. It's how you develop and grow. We don't know Amber's personal upbringing. We don't know if she was abused as a child or if she is just a 14 year old girl who likes to give head. WE DON'T KNOW. In a day and age where we have seen people take their lives for their sexuality being exposed, (remember the student who was secretly filmed having sex with another man by his roommate?), why do we think its okay to ridicule a 14 year old girl? I've seen guys inappropriately go in on her. Let's remember she's not Kat Stacks age, she's a minor. My prayers go out to this young girl. I hope that she learns from this and doesn't let it affect her to the point of no return. This is a TEACHABLE moment.
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GREAT BLOG!!!!
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