Why some relationships don't last

Women are funny characters.  I think that should be the end of this blog because it says so much! Still, I'll continue my thoughts. 

I rant and rave about women not knowing what they want, not knowing what they have until its gone, appreciating whats right in front of them etc.  It makes me wonder when our women will grow up and start being adults in relationships.  Now don't get me wrong, its not ALL women.  Just some.  There are sooo many different reasons why relationships don't work. 

6.) You rushed in-  So you meet a girl, you confuse lust with chemistry, and then you decide to make her your next girlfriend.  Next thing you know, you find out she has 3 kids, bisexual with 3 toes.  Now you realize you didn't have that much in common after all the orgasms came and went.  This is why dating is important.  Get to know each other to even see if the other person is worth being in your life.  Not everyone you date has to end up being your girlfriend.

5.) Pressure- So you've been dating about 2 months... you want a relationship.  You need to know where this is going.  You feel like your falling in love.  SIT YOUR SILLY ASS DOWN.  All these emotions you are feeling will get you in trouble.  Don't put that unnecessary pressure on the person you're dating.  What will end up happening is, they'll definitely make you their girl, but then they'll cheat on you because they weren't ready to be in a relationship in the first place!

4.) Change- When you met her, you knew she smoked cigarettes but you wanted her anyway.  Now that you're with her, you hate that she smokes so much and you want her to stop.  How about you get a life?  People walk into relationships trying to change the other person.  When you meet someone, don't ignore the things about them that you don't like in hopes that you can change them.  Doesn't work that way buddy.  I dated a girl that didn't like that I wore lipstick.  She wouldn't kiss me with my lipstick on.  Eventually, someone kissed me with my lipstick on... and it wasn't her.

3.) Case of the ex- This is a situation I run into WAY tooooo often.  There is always a lingering ex girlfriend.   She doesn't realize that she wants you back once I'm dating you.  She wants to call all hours of the night.  She needs to use you're computer as if the computers at school or the library don't work.  She needs to use your shower because hers doesn't work.  She needs to sit on your strap because hers is in the shop.  Its always some bullshit.  Leave your EX in the past! Ex girlfriends can only be friends with each other when there's no feelings attached.  Lingering feelings are trouble.  If you're not over your ex, don't try to move on to the next!

2.) Insecurities-  For some reason, relationships bring out insecurities.  Those who have trust issues let them shine bright once you get in a relationship.  You see your girl dressed up extra nice and you wonder, "Who the fuck she gettin pretty for?"  You're in the club and your girl dips off to go to the bathroom and you're wondering, "where the hell did she go and what bitch is in the bathroom to make her suddenly have to pee?"  Her phone rings and she answers it in another room because she doesn't wanna disturb the movie you're watching.  Next thing you know, you're by the bedroom door with a glass to the door listening to her talk to her grandmother.  SMH. RE-fucking-LAX!  It's not going to work if you have to question her every move.

1.) Smothering-  It's great to be with someone but you have to have that equal balance.  Most relationships fail because you spend every damn day together and then you realize you're tired of seeing your partner.  You want "me" time.  Time to hang with your friends.  Unfortunately, her ass is attached and now thinks you don't want to be with her because you rather hang out with your friends that to stay up late and watch I Love Lucy reruns.  Bitch, please get some friends of your own.

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