Ask MaRs

"Ive been dating this girl for a few months.  Things are really good between us.  When we hang out, we have a good time.  I just feel that she is wishy washy.  She shows that she really likes me but then she pulls back and acts like she doesn't care or isn't interested.  What should I do?" This sounds like a case of the, "I need to remind myself constantly that I'm single," syndrome.  Some women walk into dating with the mentality that they are here simply to date and that is it.  They don't realize that spending time with someone will spark feelings and emotions that they're not necessarily ready for. ...

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We always have been EQUAL!

Of course the hot topic of the weekend is that we are now legally able to wed in New York State!  Yayyy!!!  This is such an amazing milestone. I was a bit surprised by the negativity.  Of course you can expect it from the holy rollers, the heterosexuals but the HOMOSEXUALS? Why on God's green earth do you not think you deserve the rights of any other human on this planet?  Are you abnormal?  Do you not breathe and bleed...

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3minds invades Sweetheat Miami 2011

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Dating 101

Intro to dating. I've realized that many lesbians don't know what it means to date (me included).  We meet someone, spend every other day with them, and then expect a whole lot of shit afterwards.  What I have learned is that when it comes to dating, you should hold NO expectations.  Dating is supposed to be fun, not stressful.  With that said, here are my do's and donts to dating. DO NOT- feel under pressure.  If you feel ANY pressure then ABORT! Dating is about getting to know each other.  You shouldn't feel pressured to go somewhere that you don't wanna go, to do something you don't wanna do or to hang out...

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Why skinnydip when you can Chunkie Dunk? @mschunkiedunk

Check out the woman behind the Tshirt line, @mschunkiedunk on twitter. The shirts come in black, white and pink! Sizes range from small to 4X....

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Damnnnn You lost weight!

Once you're a celebrity you gain all these super human powers that allow you to lose a lot of weight.  Celebrities use everything short of crack to slim down.  Here are some of the most extreme weight loss celebs. 7.) Jennifer Hudson- Bobble head extraordinaire 6.) Lil ole' Jordan Sparks.  Looking mighty fine! 5.) Marsha Ambrosius- I swear I wasn't lookin at her until she lost weight 4.) Monique- Wasn't she know for loving...

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Happy Bornday @VBella !!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY VICKI!!Wishing you many more!  Stay positive, stay blessed and more importantly... NEVER  CHANGE!...

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Featured Artist @JimmiiMontana

Have you heard about Jimmii Montana?  She's a very HOT Emcee that is killing the scene right now.  Check her out!...

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NYC Pride DON'Ts!!!

Are we excited about NY Pride?  I'm on the fence with this one.  I've never really been a fan of NYC Pride.  Blah.  Either way, its a great opportunity to network and get to know new homos.  While you're meeting and greeting, take a gander at what you should NOT be doing. DO NOT- come outside of your house naked.  SMH. you have to go on public transportation in that fishnet one piece!  Your nasty ass can't even...

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3Minds Hosting this Sunday!

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Ask MaRs

"How do you get a possible significant other to understand you are bisexual- not straight or gay?" I think this is a very important question.  There is no other way to say it that to just put it out there.  The last thing you want to do is mislead anyone.  It is very important that when your dealing with sexuality, you remain open and honest.  Now if your putting it out there that you are bisexual to a potential partner and they aren't being receptive of it, then she probably is accepting of it, or chooses to ignore it.  The most important thing is that you remain open and honest about it.  Nothing worse than finding...

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TRibal Wedges for your Afternoon nut

I LOVE Tribal Wedges.  I saw these and I had to share my excitement lol ...

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Nikki vs Lil Mama

So Lil' Mama feels that Nikki is copying her style.  -_- If I HAD to copy any of these 2 broads style I'd be walking around nude all day.  Not only is Lil' Mama NOT relevant, but she's a bit presumptuous to think that anyone would aim to look like her.  Is she the first person in life to ever wear a white bob? ...

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Funbag Friday's

It's FunBag Friday!  Here are some titties to get you through the day.  Thank me later. ...

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Ask MaRs..

I get a lot of questions from different blog readers so I decided to do an, "Ask MaRs" portion of the blog.  All submissions will remain anonymous.  Here is a question from a blog reader. I am in a relationship with a person who possibly has a mental illness.  How do I deal with this?  Should I stay? Hmmm... What kind of behavior does your partner exhibit for you to feel she has a mental illness?  Often times we deal with women who are just crazy.  I've had my share of them.  Is there something specific that she does that can be associated with a mental illness?  If her behavior can be diagnosed as a...

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Gay Marriage!

We are one vote away from legalizing gay marriage in NYC.  That is such a great thing.  My immediate thoughts were... If and when gay marriage is legalized, how many of us are going to run to the alter?  You know us lesbians go through relationships like liquor... What will the divorce rate look like? There are lesbian couple that have been together for YEARS.  Then there are the couples that meet and fall in love all in the same minute.  Either way, I'm just happy to have the same opportunity to screw up my life with marriage the way the heterosexuals have the opti...

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Featured Artist @Gemi_fly

Everyone knows I'm a sucker for a spoken word artist/poet.  Linn put me on to this spoken word artist @Gemi_fly.  Follow her on twitter.  Check out the link to her website below and check out her youtube videos! https://sites.google.com/site/mzgemi...

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@RealTracyMorgan issues an apology

V.Bella sent me this article from MSN.com.  I decided to COPY and PASTE the article to the blog so you can see that Morgan has issued an apology.  He even offers to go back to Nashville and apologize. Tracy Morgan is really sorry. He's so sorry, in fact, that he's heading back to Nashville in an attempt to right his wrongs.The comedian and "30 Rock" star came under intense fire on Friday after a shockingly violent homophobic tirade during his standup routine. He issued a statement apologizing, saying: "I'm not a hateful person and don't condone any kind of violence against others." Now, Morgan, 42, is planning to return to the country...

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Evelyn VS. Royce

Last night we all witnessed Evelyn do her signature drink toss.  Royce was the target.  I know that was supposed to be the highlight of the show, but I just can't get over how TACKY both Evelyn and Royce are!  That was my highlight.  Now of course, Evelyn isn't nearly as bad as Royce.  I call Evelyn tacky because she always has these big ass people hanging from her ear.  Why in midget hell would you have earrings in...

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FUCK YOU @RealTracyMorgan

I was always a fan of Tracy Morgan... until now. With the recent LGBTQ suicides that took over our community a few months back, you can imagine how sensitive the public is to hearing people with the power to CHANGE things use their voice as an opportunity to slander homosexuals.  Tracy Morgan did a show in Nashville where he repeatedly put down homosexuality.  "Gays need to quit being pussies and not be whining about something as insignificant as bullying."  Something as insignificant as bullying?  Does he realize that the insignificant bullying has lead to people taking their own lives?  When discussing the possibility...

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What do you know about...

AIDS? Wednesday I went to a HIV/AIDS awareness conference.  I was filled with so much information that I felt it HAD to be shared.  Many people don't acknowledge the history of AIDS.  This disease has made it to its 30th birthday.  From its original debut in 1981 the AIDS virus has taken over 1 billion lives.  The most important information I took from this conference was what everyone believed to be the origin of AIDS. We...

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My Pastor taking a stand for the LGBTQ in Harlem!

My pastor was interviewed by the NY Daily News.  Here is the article. Not all Harlem pastors have a problem with an upcoming gay pride picnic. A openly gay Harlem pastor said he plans to host a service in Marcus Garvey Park during the second annual Harlem Pride event later this month. "My church will be there in full force," said Pastor Joseph Tolton, who says about 90% of his congregation at Rehoboth Temple Christ Conscious Church are members...

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3Minds Launches The No B.S. (No Bullying, No Suicides) Campaign with GMAD, and Lezplay @ Brooklyn Pride NYC 2011

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Top 5 people who finally let go of that "musician" title

Some people just aren't meant to hold that "musician" title.  Maybe they have talent that lies else where.  The music industry isn't for everyone.  Here are some "artist" who should seriously quit their day job and find a real talent. 5.) Cassie-  Boo you're beautiful!  Stick to modeling and making music video appearances.  Leave the mic alone.  Please and Thank You.  4.) Lil' Mama- She had one hit about 5...

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Who would you bed over?

 Who would you bed over? Chanel Iman Sessilie Lop...

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My Words...

Good Day! I decided to drop some of my poetry today because I haven't don't so in a while.  I hope you enjoy!  Leave feedback if you're lead to. Also, if your interested in my writing, look for my book of words coming soon! A little background about this poem.  I wrote this poem in my sleep.  Literally.  It was a foreshadow of my life.  A few months later I experienced these words. if it applies eva been caught on the wrong painting canvas?cuz ooooooo i painted that canvas and boy did i color it!i stroked that canvas in ways you couldn’t believe.reproduced colors into existence.you hear me?i took my paint brush...

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Top 5 things that will stop me from dating you...

There are some things that I absolutely can NOT deal with while dating someone.  I consider myself an easy going person but there are some things that will get you cut off with the quickness if we were to start talking.  Here's a top 5 list. 5.) Case of the Ex-  I refuse to date anyone with a lingering ex girlfriend.  Please figure out what you're doing with that situation.  Ex girlfriends are exes for a reason.  You should probably work on a friendship when feelings aren't still present.  I've dated girls that had ex girls who stalked me.  So unattractive!  Tame your ex bitches! 4.) Nail biters-...

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Summer of FUN!

Cuffing season begins mid October and ends roughly around April 1st.  By April 15th, most women have dumped their girlfriends and are ready to embrace the warm weather.  Girls clothes melt in warm weather.  Lesbians come out of hibernation in warm weather.  Nipples make appearances in warm weather.  Herpes run rampant in warm weather. Welcome to the single life! For all you single people, let's...

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That poor baby...

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First date sex...

2011... What are our standards looking like?  Does sleeping with someone on the first date mean that you have little to no standards?  I don't think I've ever given up ass on the first date.  Second date, possibly. In this day and age where sex is so free (and dangerous) what does it say about your standards if you sleep with someone on the first date?  No judgements.  We are all adults and we all handle sex in different capacities.  Sometimes you meet someone and connect with them on a level that makes it comfortable to have sex with them on the first date.  Does your standards become lower when you sleep...

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@aguynagirl on 3Minds Live

Last week I did a blog about the music industry and the lack of talent, so you can imagine my excitement when I heard that one of my FAVORITE bands, A Guy n A Girl (AGuynAGirl or AGNAG) was going to be on 3Minds Live. AGNAG consist of Guill (the guy) and Diandra (the girl).  Together these 2 artist form a sound that embodies rock, soul, funk, indie and conscious music all in one.  If you don't enjoy commercial music, and seek...

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