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Friday, July 29, 2011

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Thursday, July 28, 2011

Happy Birthday @linn_3minds


Happy Birthday Lennard!  You GEEK! :) Love you OOdles



Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Child stars who turned into Adult Bangers



Jurnee Smollett

Remember Jurnee Smollett? She was in Eve's Bayou and has the clan of brother's and sister's that was once on a reality TV show.  Look at her now!

We all know Regina King as Brenda from 227.  She's always been a banger
Regina King



 My favorite, Raven Symone.  She is SEXY AS FUCK!



Raven Symone



Rudy was the cutest child star out there... Now look at her

Keisha Knight Pulliam

Last but not least... Tatiana Ali... Everyone loved her on Fresh Prince.  We don't see her around often but she is STILL a banger!

Tatiana Ali


Happy Birthday @Daya_3Minds!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAYA!  We love you! Thank you for your friendship. <3





Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Da Brat turns ladylike for VIBE magazine




I've always thought Da Brat was gorgeous.  She has made the change from Tomboy to Glamour Girl for VIBE magazine.  She cleans up pretty nice!




Monday, July 25, 2011

Basketball Girlfriends...jumpoffs and exwives



 


So tonight on Basketball girlfriends....

Two people get into a fight.  Last weeks episode would lead you to believe that the fight is between
Jennifer's shady ass and Evelyn.  As much as I would've loved to see that, the fight is actually between Tami and Grease faced Meeka.  I think that's better anyway.  Meeka has filed a lawsuit against Tami stating that she has, "rendered sick, sore, lame, sustained severe and painful personal injuries, sustained severe nervous shock, mental anguish, severe emotional distress and great physical pain."

These broads know how to make a buck!  Meeka is suing  assault, battery, intentional infliction of emotional distress and intentional interference with contractual relations which results in a lawsuit of $12,500.

Nothing agaist Meeka, but I think she is just making a name for herself.  Granted it puts Tami in her place.  She can't walk around beating everyones ass.  I love Tami but she is a grown ass woman and has to leave all the fighting to the teenagers.  These women get paid to be on television and all they do is fight, fuck and throw drinks on each other.  They're a head pat away from being project chicks. 

Friday, July 22, 2011

Stalking- 2011 edition


I think by now we have all had a stalker.  I know I have :-/  I know someone who has a stalker on his hands and I think its HILARIOUS!  I figured I'd give you stalkers a guideline on how to properly stalk the person your obsessed with.

Now there are degrees to stalking.  You can be a subtle stalker or you can be an outright "Bitch, yea I'm at your window... who is that broad?" type of stalker.  Subtle stalking is maybe looking at the person you likes timeline on twitter or constantly reviewing their facebook page.  Extreme stalking is lighting shit on fire and busting windows out peoples cars.  Stalking is an art form.  You have to master it in a way that doesn't make you appear as crazy as you REALLY are.  Here are some ways to get your stalking game up.

Extreme Stalking-

  •  Leave songs on her voicemail.  Call about 2 am.  When she wakes up, she should hear "I got a feelin' somebody's watchin' me."  If you want to be romantic, play "Secret Lover's." or "Bust the windows out your car." 

  • So she didn't answer your phone call?  Send a text.  She didn't reply to your text? Send a few emails.  You get no response from the emails?  Send a facebook message.  No response from the facebook message?  Write on her wall.  She didn't response to your wall message?  Send her a tweet.  Still nothing? Go to her house to make sure she is okay. 

  • Go through her tweets and facebook messages to find out where she is going to be.  Then conveniently show up!  Girls like that, really.

  • Did she just tell you she was going to sleep?  Go to her house and watch her!  You know, just to make sure nothing happens to her.  After all, you care about her.  Wouldn't want her to die in her sleep or anything.  Sit on the side of the bed and stare.  It won't scare her or anything.  She'll think of you as her guardian angel.

  • Make her feel special by being her personal escort service.  She tell you that she's going somewhere?  Follow her.  Just to make sure she gets there safely. 

  • Never met her mother?  Call her and introduce yourself.  Then call about 3 times a day just to check in with her.  Parents like that.  It shows you care for their child.
If this doesn't help you make her fall deeply in love with her then I don't know what will!


Wednesday, July 20, 2011

She's just not that into you!


You ever meet someone... date them for a while... and you just can't read the signs to tell if she's into you or not?  Well if you don't know, here I am to let you know, that she just may not be that into you.  Here are the signs you should look for...

5.) Are you always introducing her to your friends but she is NEVER introducing you to her friends?  Every time her friends are around you, you sort of stand their awkwardly waiting for her conversation to finish.  Maybe she's oblivious, maybe she doesn't have manners or maybe she just doesn't want people to know you guys are more than just friends.

4.) You throw your panties at her, but she doesn't catch them.  So you have been dating for a few weeks, maybe even a few months.  You think its time to "take it to the next level."  You light the candles, you put on the sexy lingerie, you pull out your best moves, and she turns you down.  If she doesn't even want to have sex with you, then she really isn't that into you.  Yes, most times people want to take it slow, but turning down sex is a way of showing control.  Pussy is power.  When you turn down the power source, its usually because you just don't want it.

3.) You send a text or make a phone call but don't get a response until 3 or 4 hours later.  Do you call or text more than she calls or texts you?  When you call, do you strangely never seem to get her? All of a sudden, it rings twice and goes straight to voicemail.  You text something sweet and get the, "k" response 6 hours later.  When someone likes you they answer your phone calls and your text messages.  If it takes her a whole day to answer, "How you doin today?" then she's not into you.

2.) She NEVER has time to see you.  You ask her what she's doing Friday night, she says nothing.  You ask her if she wants to hang out.  She says no.  You invite her out to dinner, she says no.  You invite her to the movies, she says no.  Stop asking!  If someone wants to see you, they'll make a way to see you.  If your numerous attempts to hang out with someone goes failed, then she's just not that into you.

1.) You leave her facebook or twitter comments and she deletes them or ignores them.  At this point you seriously have to ask yourself why you continue to entertain this person.  You leave a comment saying, "Hope your day goes well!"  Next thing you know, you check her page and see that shit vanished!  There goes the message you were waiting for.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

I Have Gay Pride!

Nikkie Moore, photographer extraordinaire, (lol) has put out a line of Tee's.  Check out @readmytee

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Monday, July 18, 2011

I blame Nikki!

How would you feel if you 14 year old cousin had their own rendition of this picture as their default?  SMH.  What is going on with our youth? 

I logged on to Facebook only to see my 14 year old cousin in front of the mirror in this very pose wearing some short shorts.  I looked at the comments from little boys saying, "lick, lick, lick."  Man, I never wanted to back hand someone so badly in my life.  But when a child decides to imitate a pose like this, who is to blame?  The parents?  The artist?  The community? 

When I saw the picture I called my cousin to tell her about herself.  She didn't answer.  I called her mother, no response.  I was going to call Lil' Kim and Nikki Minaj but them hoes phones are off.  After a while of going crazy, I decided to leave it alone.  If her mother isn't telling her that this is not ladylike, and that boys will not respect her with these antics, then why should she listen to me? 

As lesbians, lets be sure that we are raising our daughters to have the UTMOST respect for themselves and their bodies.  At an age where you begin to question yourself and sexuality, let's make sure that we raise a generation that knows the difference between classy and trashy.

Friday, July 15, 2011

"Yella Bone" - @Taz_Da_Realist & @shawtymusic (video) -

I like it! Leave Your Thoughts!


- Phoenixstar9

What's wrong with being gay?

Last night I was watching "True Life: blah blah blah"  (I forgot the title... but it was something along the lines of I'm no longer gay due to my family).

I was a bit shocked because the show had two 20 somethings who felt that they could no longer be gay due to their family's disapproval.  One girl was caught with another girl when she was 18.  When her mother found her, she stabbed her.  After being stabbed by her mother, she decided to change her lifestyle and become heterosexual.  Then there was a guy who got prayed over in order to become heterosexual.  He gave his life to the Lord, and now he feels "complete".

I completely sympathize with these people.  Members of our community go through this on a daily basis.  I can not imagine my mother stabbing me because I decided to be who I am and love who I want to love.  To be honest, my freedom to be me means more than having a relationship with my mother.  Sounds bad, but I can't live my life for someone else.  Can anyone honestly answer this question:  WHAT IS WRONG WITH BEING GAY?

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Penetrate me Bitch!


Why do people feel that penetration is a heterosexual act?  Penetration is an act, PERIOD.  The requirements to be penetrated does not say, "must be a masculine being penetrating a feminine being."  Because men penetrate women during sex, and the man is viewed as being more powerful and the woman more submissive, this translates into homosexual sexual activity.  The more dominate or powerful person penetrates the submissive partner. 

If you take the idea of weakness away from penetratee, and the power away from the penetrator, how many "aggressive or femme aggressive" lesbians would be open about being penetrated?  I personally see nothing wrong with it.  At the end of the day, people seem to forget that we were all born WOMEN.  In general, women like to be pleased.  I'm so over lesbians using the, "if I wanted to be dicked down then I would have a boyfriend."  Sex is sex.  Its done for pleasure, not only for reproduction.  How ever you choose to be pleased is YOUR business.  Don't think that you can't get a strap in your ass because it makes you straight.  Shit, if you like a strap in your ear, do your damn thing! 

If you identify as an aggressive, don't fall into the "I'm supposed the be dominant so I can't take the strap" role.  Penetration does not make you a bitch!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

"That Girl"

I saw this video and I just couldnt get it out of my head.  NO ONE wants to be, "that girl."

Brave New Voices- That Girl

Monday, July 11, 2011

Guarded...

When do you let your guard down?  When we meet people, it is natural to not give all of yourself to them.  After all, you don't know if the person will be a hit or a miss.  After some time you can tell that someone might be worth letting your guard down for.  The worst feeling in the world is showing your vulnerable side to someone who couldn't appreciate it. 

The reason most people don't let their guards down is because of fear.  Fear of pain, dishonesty, deceit, infidelity, rejection, disloyalty... the list goes on.  These feelings stay with you until the person you're dating melts walls and makes it easier for you to trust them.  Ultimately, that's what it all boils down to, TRUST.  When you can see that the person is trustworthy, walls will melt. 

It is so important to take your time. Not everyone you meet should be someone you open up to.  Not everyone you meet deserves to know all of you.  Not everyone you meet is going to be the one for you. 

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Why some relationships don't last

Women are funny characters.  I think that should be the end of this blog because it says so much! Still, I'll continue my thoughts. 

I rant and rave about women not knowing what they want, not knowing what they have until its gone, appreciating whats right in front of them etc.  It makes me wonder when our women will grow up and start being adults in relationships.  Now don't get me wrong, its not ALL women.  Just some.  There are sooo many different reasons why relationships don't work. 

6.) You rushed in-  So you meet a girl, you confuse lust with chemistry, and then you decide to make her your next girlfriend.  Next thing you know, you find out she has 3 kids, bisexual with 3 toes.  Now you realize you didn't have that much in common after all the orgasms came and went.  This is why dating is important.  Get to know each other to even see if the other person is worth being in your life.  Not everyone you date has to end up being your girlfriend.

5.) Pressure- So you've been dating about 2 months... you want a relationship.  You need to know where this is going.  You feel like your falling in love.  SIT YOUR SILLY ASS DOWN.  All these emotions you are feeling will get you in trouble.  Don't put that unnecessary pressure on the person you're dating.  What will end up happening is, they'll definitely make you their girl, but then they'll cheat on you because they weren't ready to be in a relationship in the first place!

4.) Change- When you met her, you knew she smoked cigarettes but you wanted her anyway.  Now that you're with her, you hate that she smokes so much and you want her to stop.  How about you get a life?  People walk into relationships trying to change the other person.  When you meet someone, don't ignore the things about them that you don't like in hopes that you can change them.  Doesn't work that way buddy.  I dated a girl that didn't like that I wore lipstick.  She wouldn't kiss me with my lipstick on.  Eventually, someone kissed me with my lipstick on... and it wasn't her.

3.) Case of the ex- This is a situation I run into WAY tooooo often.  There is always a lingering ex girlfriend.   She doesn't realize that she wants you back once I'm dating you.  She wants to call all hours of the night.  She needs to use you're computer as if the computers at school or the library don't work.  She needs to use your shower because hers doesn't work.  She needs to sit on your strap because hers is in the shop.  Its always some bullshit.  Leave your EX in the past! Ex girlfriends can only be friends with each other when there's no feelings attached.  Lingering feelings are trouble.  If you're not over your ex, don't try to move on to the next!

2.) Insecurities-  For some reason, relationships bring out insecurities.  Those who have trust issues let them shine bright once you get in a relationship.  You see your girl dressed up extra nice and you wonder, "Who the fuck she gettin pretty for?"  You're in the club and your girl dips off to go to the bathroom and you're wondering, "where the hell did she go and what bitch is in the bathroom to make her suddenly have to pee?"  Her phone rings and she answers it in another room because she doesn't wanna disturb the movie you're watching.  Next thing you know, you're by the bedroom door with a glass to the door listening to her talk to her grandmother.  SMH. RE-fucking-LAX!  It's not going to work if you have to question her every move.

1.) Smothering-  It's great to be with someone but you have to have that equal balance.  Most relationships fail because you spend every damn day together and then you realize you're tired of seeing your partner.  You want "me" time.  Time to hang with your friends.  Unfortunately, her ass is attached and now thinks you don't want to be with her because you rather hang out with your friends that to stay up late and watch I Love Lucy reruns.  Bitch, please get some friends of your own.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

3Minds and 4Strong- Gay boi band part 3

What are we wearing this summer?

So I'm no fashion guru or anything but I'm always interested in what the celebrities wear.  I can't say that I intentionally follow trends, but there are certain styles that I gravitate towards.  I'm more of a vintage kid so my style borders on late 80's early 90's.  Still, I like to be aware of whats happening on the fashion scene.  Here are some fun summertime trends. 


5. Color Blocking- To color block you should mix brights, pales, and patterns.  It is not for someone who does not like taking risks with their clothing.




4. Crop Tops- When you think Crop Top, you're thinking flat stomaches.  If your tummy isn't flat, wear your crop top with high waisted skirt or pants.


3. Crochet- A Crochet piece can add so much flair to an outfit. Wear it over a bikini or a cami and you're good to go.

2. White Suits- I LOVE white suits!  Unfortunately I am too short to pull it off.


1.) High slits- Show off some leg!




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